LITTLE MOTIVATION

So... Last  few days I had worse time. I was feeling homesick, around 7500 km away from home. I closed myself for other people for couple of days and spent time using Skype and call my amazing parents. I am not writing it to complain or  say how lonely I am or how much I miss them. I would like to show, what I learnt through this. Every difficult, not comfortable for us situation teach us something new. However, it's important how you react. First thing, which I saw is that human being is the only creature, who can make himself happy. Only you can control your feelings and it's up to you, which attitude you'll choose. Of course you can keep on telling everybody around how disappointed you are, but honestly it will not help you at all. Maybe you'll get little attention for some time, but what later? You'll end up in the same point. You are the only one, who can contribute to your happiness. Unfortunately big percentage of people equate their happiness with other people. Obviously they can be part of it, but only some part. For example feeling homesick, making me thinking  that I want to spend more time with my family, but on the other hand through this experience I could have understood how important they are for me. However, only time spent alone, showed me that IT'S ONLY ME who can improve my mood. Spending time, doing my hobby it's great medication! 

So... I hope after reading this post everyone, who is feeling so fucking bad and bagging for others attention only to improve his mood, will understand that it's way to nowhere. Get up and focus on your goals!

CAN YOU STOP COMPLAIN ?

I was sitting with him... She kept on complaining about everything what is happening in her life and how much he hates herself. I think he just needed somebody to talk and complain about everything. She was saying that she is so lonely, that he misses her ex, that she didn't achieve anything in her life, but  would like to get better job. That he doesn't have enough money and cannot afford to travel. She was saying, that during weekend only thing which she does is drinking alcohol and wasting time. 

I was listening to all these things and knew, that most of her problems she only creates. Everything starts in a mind, so if you want to keep on finding problems, you will always find some. Most of people do that. People problems' we can band in two groups. First are real problems and second are problems mostly created by people. The second group is of course much bigger. 

Negative thinking increase your disappointment of life. Obviously there are things in our life, that we cannot control, but most of them we can. If you can change something why you just cannot do that? If you cannot afford to travel, why don't you work harder?

Don't you think that instead of complaining it's better to change something? Challenge yourself all the time and I am pretty sure you will be happier. 

How do you deal with time when you want just sit and keep on complaining? I try to kill this thinking and focus on positive things in my life :)

Enjoy!

ALDO & MARSHALLS.

Hello!

The beautiful and windy Sunday's afternoon we spent in Toronto. St. Partick's Day was good occasion to visit the city once again and see beautiful parade. I was wearing two new my shopping HITS... First is grey basketball cap from Marshalls and second are sneakers from Aldo (price on sale- 28$!). I hope you will like and whole stylisation and I am waiting for your reviews :)

cap- Marshalls

Jacket-Sinsay

Pants- Marshalls

Shoes- Aldo

8 REASONS WHY YOU ARE THE MOST HAPPY PERSON.

Almost everyday I meet people, who are not happy enough in their life. They complain, saying that they don't have enough money, friends, opportunities or education. What's more they don't have enough motivation to change it too. Most of the time they focus on their failures, thinking they cannot go forward and change it. 

Below I will show you 8 reasons, why you should think about yourself, as about the most happy person.

1. If You get up and can afford to eat breakfast it means Your are happier than a lot of people (who         cannot afford it).

2. If Your have person beside you with who you can share everything (even express all your                     frustration and shout)- You are really lucky!

3. If You can afford to stop and buy a coffee, during busy day...

4. If You are able to go shopping (approximately once a month), You're richer than a lot of people.

5. If You are able to improve your education level& personal skills any time it means You can                 achieve a lot!

6. If You don't suffer from any illnesses- You are happier than 50% people around you.

7. If You have hobby, which don't let you be bored.... 

8. If You always think, that all failures are only stops on the way to success, you probably got                 everything  what You need to get it :-) 

If You read all these points and say: "Yes, I got it" it means there is nothing what can stop you achieving your goals and become the most happy person. Or maybe you are that person already?

HOW TO FIND MOTIVATION.

Today will be little bit different post, but also different circumstances. For the last few days this question comes to my mind regularly. How to find motivation? How to start building your life and achieve more and more? In spite of having a job and my own blog last time I started feeling I want to get something more. Whenever I have some new plan in my mind a lot of factors come to destroy it, but it's just part of the life. The most important is not to give up when you have some new plan/ goal which you want to achieve. For me the best idea is to follow people who achieved what I want to achieve, just by their hard work. 6 months ago my life changed completely. I moved to Canada and started my life here. Honestly, after 1-2 months I lost all my motivation. I stopped achieving my workout goals and the travel's as well. Now I feel like I lost something. I let my motivation go away, because of all changes which happened in my life. However, now I feel stronger and motivated. What did help me?

1. Reading motivation books- my favourite one is: "The power of positive thinking" Norman Vincent     Peale.

2. BIG support, which I get from my family and my dad's smile. It motivates me a lot!

3. Following people who achieved the same what I want to achieve. I really respect people who didn't     have anything at start, but by their hard work achieved all their dreams. 

4. Eliminate from life people, who put you down, who only make you upset and don't give anything       good. Most of the time they are the reason that you still stand in the same place.