I was sitting with him... She kept on complaining about everything what is happening in her life and how much he hates herself. I think he just needed somebody to talk and complain about everything. She was saying that she is so lonely, that he misses her ex, that she didn't achieve anything in her life, but would like to get better job. That he doesn't have enough money and cannot afford to travel. She was saying, that during weekend only thing which she does is drinking alcohol and wasting time.
I was listening to all these things and knew, that most of her problems she only creates. Everything starts in a mind, so if you want to keep on finding problems, you will always find some. Most of people do that. People problems' we can band in two groups. First are real problems and second are problems mostly created by people. The second group is of course much bigger.
Negative thinking increase your disappointment of life. Obviously there are things in our life, that we cannot control, but most of them we can. If you can change something why you just cannot do that? If you cannot afford to travel, why don't you work harder?
Don't you think that instead of complaining it's better to change something? Challenge yourself all the time and I am pretty sure you will be happier.
How do you deal with time when you want just sit and keep on complaining? I try to kill this thinking and focus on positive things in my life :)
Enjoy!
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