SUNDAY LOOK.

I know, it's been a while since I created last fashion post. A lot of things, which are going on in my personal life didn't let me focus on fashion, but I am back! We are born to develop and make our dreams come true. That's why never mind what is happening in life we have to focus on our personal goals and don't let anybody to put us down. 

Today we have little cold, windy day. So Sunday's look includes coat and wedges. I bought coat and wedges in Poland. Shirt and jeans are from Canada.

coat- Orsay Poland

wedges- no name

jeans- Winners

shirt- Forever21

bag- House Poland

sunglasses- Fossil

You can't control what happens, but you can control your reactions!

Will your self-confidence and self-esteem  protect you if you have hard time? Probably no, but it helps! I got new experience few days ago. Haters gonna hate. We know it, not from yesterday. But weirder thing is, that the most unexpected hate from people, who you treat as friends. We cannot control what is happening around us but we can control how we react! First thinking? Doing the same. If somebody speaks shit about you, you wanna do the same? You know it? Yeah, it's probably first thing, which comes up to you mind, but you shouldn't let it go! If you will get back at that person you will be exactly on the same level like him. If you are trying to achieve your personal development, you should avoid it! Putting somebody down and behaving exactly the same way will give you only pleasure for a while. Or even not this, if you present some good level of personality. Everything what doesn't kill us, make us stronger, this is true. Some people cannot stand seeing others happy. Even if that person is trying to motivate them to change something in their life. One day you are getting to know, that person, who you consider as a friend speaks shit about you. Should it hurt? Maybe...but not me! If you know, that you are worth more than people around everything changes. So, don't  hate, don't put down. If you don't have anything good to say, just walk away with smile on your face. Only people, who are mentally weak, underestimated and jealous can try get some pleasure by hating somebody. People who are different, who are motivated and focused on their own goals will never do it. Why? Because they know that they create world around by positive thinking and will not want to loose energy for hate. Work everyday for better version of yourself. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore. It's up to you if you want to be strong or intelligent,but never be the weak one! Happiness is a choice. So decide today, if you prefer live happy, thinking, that only what you give people is motivation or loosing energy for hate. Choose knowingly what kind of person you want to be, but also remember to throw out of your life people, who don't deserve to be there. Without hate and any other shit. Just walk away with smile and think that because of them you are stronger today, then you were yesterday. Paradoxical people, who wanted to hurt you the most contributed to your development. Today I want to say "thanks to him" for proving me how strong I am. I hope sometime, when I will become famous blogger and coach will see his progress as well. 

"WHY DID YOU MOVE HERE?!"

Everyday I can hear the same question from different, sometimes random people: "Why did you move to Canada, if you can have better life in Europe"? Weird and difficult question. When people decide to change something and move, there is probably a lot of factors. These who know me, know that I am travelling lover. So this was main factor I think. As I always say- it's not move forever. Sometimes it's good to loose all your comfort zone- the place, where you feel safe. Someone, who has never experienced it, will never know what I am talking about. One Polish poet said that all we know about ourselves is, what we experienced. So even if I know, that the place now is worse I am trying to use the time as much as possible. Everything starts in a mind. If you will keep on complaining and wasting time, you will probably do it  everywhere. Even if you will live in the best country in the world. One more thing... I would never appreciate all these people and things which I have back home, if I wouldn't move. Probably I would have never seen this huge support, which I get from my family every single day. We usually don't appreciate people, who are close, unless we don't have them with us everyday. Who knows, maybe if I wouldn't move I wouldn't meet so inspiriting people, who motivated me enough to care about my future. One thing, which I know for sure... I have grown up faster and I am stronger. I had to learn, that whatever will happen, it will be good. So in conclusion... From every decision, never mind if it's good or not you can get something for you. Easy example, I have never gone for Fashion Week in a different country. Here I got the chance. Hopefully  now I will get less questions about the move :D :)   

Have a nice Sunday evening!

LITTLE MOTIVATION

So... Last  few days I had worse time. I was feeling homesick, around 7500 km away from home. I closed myself for other people for couple of days and spent time using Skype and call my amazing parents. I am not writing it to complain or  say how lonely I am or how much I miss them. I would like to show, what I learnt through this. Every difficult, not comfortable for us situation teach us something new. However, it's important how you react. First thing, which I saw is that human being is the only creature, who can make himself happy. Only you can control your feelings and it's up to you, which attitude you'll choose. Of course you can keep on telling everybody around how disappointed you are, but honestly it will not help you at all. Maybe you'll get little attention for some time, but what later? You'll end up in the same point. You are the only one, who can contribute to your happiness. Unfortunately big percentage of people equate their happiness with other people. Obviously they can be part of it, but only some part. For example feeling homesick, making me thinking  that I want to spend more time with my family, but on the other hand through this experience I could have understood how important they are for me. However, only time spent alone, showed me that IT'S ONLY ME who can improve my mood. Spending time, doing my hobby it's great medication! 

So... I hope after reading this post everyone, who is feeling so fucking bad and bagging for others attention only to improve his mood, will understand that it's way to nowhere. Get up and focus on your goals!

CAN YOU STOP COMPLAIN ?

I was sitting with him... She kept on complaining about everything what is happening in her life and how much he hates herself. I think he just needed somebody to talk and complain about everything. She was saying that she is so lonely, that he misses her ex, that she didn't achieve anything in her life, but  would like to get better job. That he doesn't have enough money and cannot afford to travel. She was saying, that during weekend only thing which she does is drinking alcohol and wasting time. 

I was listening to all these things and knew, that most of her problems she only creates. Everything starts in a mind, so if you want to keep on finding problems, you will always find some. Most of people do that. People problems' we can band in two groups. First are real problems and second are problems mostly created by people. The second group is of course much bigger. 

Negative thinking increase your disappointment of life. Obviously there are things in our life, that we cannot control, but most of them we can. If you can change something why you just cannot do that? If you cannot afford to travel, why don't you work harder?

Don't you think that instead of complaining it's better to change something? Challenge yourself all the time and I am pretty sure you will be happier. 

How do you deal with time when you want just sit and keep on complaining? I try to kill this thinking and focus on positive things in my life :)

Enjoy!

ALDO & MARSHALLS.

Hello!

The beautiful and windy Sunday's afternoon we spent in Toronto. St. Partick's Day was good occasion to visit the city once again and see beautiful parade. I was wearing two new my shopping HITS... First is grey basketball cap from Marshalls and second are sneakers from Aldo (price on sale- 28$!). I hope you will like and whole stylisation and I am waiting for your reviews :)

cap- Marshalls

Jacket-Sinsay

Pants- Marshalls

Shoes- Aldo

8 REASONS WHY YOU ARE THE MOST HAPPY PERSON.

Almost everyday I meet people, who are not happy enough in their life. They complain, saying that they don't have enough money, friends, opportunities or education. What's more they don't have enough motivation to change it too. Most of the time they focus on their failures, thinking they cannot go forward and change it. 

Below I will show you 8 reasons, why you should think about yourself, as about the most happy person.

1. If You get up and can afford to eat breakfast it means Your are happier than a lot of people (who         cannot afford it).

2. If Your have person beside you with who you can share everything (even express all your                     frustration and shout)- You are really lucky!

3. If You can afford to stop and buy a coffee, during busy day...

4. If You are able to go shopping (approximately once a month), You're richer than a lot of people.

5. If You are able to improve your education level& personal skills any time it means You can                 achieve a lot!

6. If You don't suffer from any illnesses- You are happier than 50% people around you.

7. If You have hobby, which don't let you be bored.... 

8. If You always think, that all failures are only stops on the way to success, you probably got                 everything  what You need to get it :-) 

If You read all these points and say: "Yes, I got it" it means there is nothing what can stop you achieving your goals and become the most happy person. Or maybe you are that person already?